The wedding day is fast approaching and the load of responsibilities is fast increasing. You are just managing to crawl from one to another under this heavy load. The best man is always at hand to help out in your every need, but still it's not his wedding but yours. While everything else seems to be ticking along, you are constantly being reminded about the wedding speech that you, as the groom have to deliver.
Speech making is something which the old and the young fear alike. Not many people relish the fact that you have to get in front of an audience and deliver a heartfelt, funny and memorable speech. Being a groom, your nerves have been pulled taut as it is, what you don't need right now is the added strain of composing and delivering a speech. Try as you may, it's just something you are dreading.
First of all let me assure you that all grooms dread the task of making the speech. So put your fear aside and let us help you out in that aspect. Here is how you can make a great speech:
PREPARATION:
Any good speech will have to have a little research done. Before you jump into it lets look into what you will need to know.
Get to know the names of all the close relatives of your family who have to be thanked.
Get to know the names of the bride's side of the family who will need a mention.
Note down the names of the maid of honor and the bridesmaid, they will of course need to be mentioned.
POSTURE:
The key element in any speech will be the way you deliver your speech, standing up straight, maintaining eye contact and smiling will go a long way in determining the shape your speech will take. Always remember exuding confidence will have desired effect on your audience. None of the present audience would like to see a speech being delivered by someone who looks like he would faint at any minute. So keep your posture intact.
THANKING:
When you start your speech, always remember to start by thanking all the necessary people. Thank your family as well as the bride's family. Thank all the people who made efforts to witness the happy occasion. Welcome everyone warmly. Take time to thank all the people who have made this day a success, mention their names. Your preparation will come in handy here. Thank the best man, the bridesmaid and all the people who have helped you in putting together the wedding.
APPRECIATING:
Appreciate the bride for all she has done for you; praise her beauty and her intelligence. Let her know how much you love her and how happy she has made you by agreeing to marry you. It will for sure make your bride very happy.
EXPERIENCE:
You can recount your experiences with the bride, when you both met, how you met. Any special incident or time you both shared together can also be mentioned.
HOPES FOR THE FUTURE:
You can then talk about the hopes and dreams for your future. How you want to nurture your marriage with love understanding and loyalty.
All these things will make sure that your groom speech is remembered by one and all especially your bride. For more ideas and sample speeches you can also click here. So go all out an woo your bride and everyone present at your wedding in style.
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